[He gives that the careful consideration it needs, his mind visualizing the shape of what he'd noticed under Seg's clothes.]
I think...if we were careful and kept regular checks, it could be done. Non-traditional ties could hold the same effect and pressure in certain spots could keep discomfort at bay.
And...if you wanted to keep your clothing on as well, that would be doable.
[There's a beat as he picks his words. This isn't easy for his friend, he's sure, but there were parts of this that felt a bit like it needed careful coaxing.]
If we were to do this, it'd be no different in anything else we'd do in that there's no obligation. This sort of thing isn't for everyone, but I think it's worth a try.
[He nods to himself and gives a small smile. He doesn't doubt this is a show of trust and it deserves that level of respect.]
One new thing at a time and the removal of clothing can be as simple a thing as you like.
I'm going to do what research I can into how best to use ropes for your benefit, but I'll be happy to take that up with you whenever you'd like, my schedule's very open.
I was thinking the opposite, perhaps. So as to free up our options for the tying, perhaps assess what might work.
[There's a tension in his voice. Chris will be the first person he willingly lets see him naked, the debacle at the aquarium notwithstanding. It's a lot, but he's always known he was going to have to do it sometime. And Chris is a healer, is he not? It might be no different than seeing a physician. (It will be, but it's easier to pretend.)]
I do think it might be easier if there was no expectation of quota, for the clothing part. Perhaps leaving that to the tying.
I agree. We could frame it in or with something else for your ease, if it'd help. A bath or something with less potential contact, if your mind would benefit from a distraction.
[Otherwise, it might just be Chis staring at him while he undresses. Fine for Chris, probably less comfortable for Seg.]
Alternatively, I could be pretending to do something else if my undivided attention would be too much.
I think what I was picturing is myself undressing while you wait elsewhere, then coming to me naked, but covered, so I can reveal at my own pace. Perhaps in the bed in your...what should we call it, play room?
You would be allowed to touch me, if you wanted, but I likely wouldn't be in the mood for sex anyway.
[It...almost sounds nice, to be honest. Someone just looking at his scars, touching them, accepting them. Accepting him, as he feels oddly sure Chris will.]
That sounds lovely. I'd be more'n happy to do it that way.
[He liked the idea of touching as he could, maybe pressing kisses where he would. A little light body worship to warm up to the idea in time, but nothing too insistent or pressing.]
At your leisure, handsome. My door is open to you.
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I think...if we were careful and kept regular checks, it could be done. Non-traditional ties could hold the same effect and pressure in certain spots could keep discomfort at bay.
And...if you wanted to keep your clothing on as well, that would be doable.
[There's a beat as he picks his words. This isn't easy for his friend, he's sure, but there were parts of this that felt a bit like it needed careful coaxing.]
If we were to do this, it'd be no different in anything else we'd do in that there's no obligation. This sort of thing isn't for everyone, but I think it's worth a try.
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[Phew. He's not ready to take that step with everyone, but Chris has earned some trust.]
I do think the tying and the first removal of clothing should be on different days, perhaps. One new thing at a time, yes?
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One new thing at a time and the removal of clothing can be as simple a thing as you like.
I'm going to do what research I can into how best to use ropes for your benefit, but I'll be happy to take that up with you whenever you'd like, my schedule's very open.
You thinking we do tying first?
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[There's a tension in his voice. Chris will be the first person he willingly lets see him naked, the debacle at the aquarium notwithstanding. It's a lot, but he's always known he was going to have to do it sometime. And Chris is a healer, is he not? It might be no different than seeing a physician. (It will be, but it's easier to pretend.)]
I do think it might be easier if there was no expectation of quota, for the clothing part. Perhaps leaving that to the tying.
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[Otherwise, it might just be Chis staring at him while he undresses. Fine for Chris, probably less comfortable for Seg.]
Alternatively, I could be pretending to do something else if my undivided attention would be too much.
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You would be allowed to touch me, if you wanted, but I likely wouldn't be in the mood for sex anyway.
[It...almost sounds nice, to be honest. Someone just looking at his scars, touching them, accepting them. Accepting him, as he feels oddly sure Chris will.]
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That sounds lovely. I'd be more'n happy to do it that way.
[He liked the idea of touching as he could, maybe pressing kisses where he would. A little light body worship to warm up to the idea in time, but nothing too insistent or pressing.]
At your leisure, handsome. My door is open to you.
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